In my experience as a medium, 98% of the time the spirit person you want to hear from during the reading comes through. It is important to understand that the spirit world decides who will come through, not me, nor you. An analogy that I like to use is that of calling up to heaven and asking the spiritual switchboard operator to connect me to the phone line of the soul my client (also known as the sitter) wants to hear from. If that soul is available and willing to answer the phone and communicate, then they will come through. It is possible for another soul to answer the phone and communicate first before handing it over to the soul that the sitter wants to hear from.
The least I know about who it is you want to talk to, the better able I am to provide evidential information regarding the spirit coming through. There are, for any number of reasons, occasions when a spirit will not come through. Sometimes, the spirit being sought may be in a healing place and needs separation from the earth plane in order to move on to the next level of their soul’s evolution, either through reincarnation or by doing special “heavenly” work on the other side. Their failure to come through does not mean they have forgotten about you or don’t love you. Some spirits won't come through because they feel your attachment to them is too strong, and is interring with your ability to get on with your life. Therefore, they lovingly set boundaries so you will do your grief work and move on. It’s almost like they are trying to convey through their lack of communication that their time with you on earth is over and you need to learn to live without them and move forward by recreating and enjoying the rest of your life. It is important for you to know that this does not mean they don’t love you. It means they are giving you the freedom to begin again and to live your life to the fullest.
When I open up to the spirit world, I never know who will come through. Referring to the phone analogy I used earlier, it’s like calling the land-line to someone’s house (which by the way is almost an obsolete concept) and not knowing who will answer the phone. It could be a family member, distant relative or friend that answers the phone. The soul that answers the phone will talk to you before handing the phone off to the one you want to talk to or he could very well tell you that the person you want to talk to isn’t available now but may be available later. I have no control over who will answer my call. My job is to deliver the messages I receive from Spirit to you. I may not always understand what the message means, but you should.
Sometimes a message can come through from a soul that you don’t know. However, the message is important for you to remember because it could be intended for a distant family member, friend or coworker that you will be coming in contact with in the future. I may take brief pauses as I connect with the spirits that are present. Don’t take these pauses as a sign that the reading is over.
Occasionally, information that comes through in a reading may not make sense to you at the time. Please do not dismiss the information as wrong. You will do yourself a huge disservice if you do. Spirit has a great way of validating their existence by bringing through information that you have no knowledge of at the time of the reading, but later find out to be accurate.
Some of my clients are not interested in communicating with spirits, but are wanting clarity and insight into the core issues they are dealing with in life. I ask my clients not to volunteer any information during the reading. I prefer to hear from Spirit what the core issues are because then I am able to provide you with evidential information, which validates that I am receiving information from a spiritual source (God). This way, you will know for sure that I am receiving information that you can rely on.
Although I am able to look into the future, I will not tell you what your future will be. I am not a fortune teller, I am a psychic medium. It is up to you as a co-creator with the Divine to create your future as you would like it to be. No psychic, including myself, can foresee your future with 100% accuracy. If they say they can, then they are not telling you the truth. What can truly be seen at the time of your reading are the probabilities, possibilities and pathways into your future: opportunities and obstacles based on where you are at particular moment of your life. I might see pathways that stand out strongly and are most likely too manifest. I have been told that I am very accurate. With that said, everything in our lives can change in an instant. This is because we all have free will and create our lives moment by moment with the choices we make and the beliefs we hold.
Expect that I might ask you if the message is making sense to you but please don’t volunteer information until the reading has concluded. At that time you can offer as much information as you feel may help put the puzzle pieces together and reflect on the reading. The more you tell me about yourself and your situation, the less I can give you as evidential information. Be open to what you are hearing without saying no too quickly. You could be receiving information that you may not understand until later.
A prime example of this occurred during a reading I had several years ago with a young college student. Her German grandmother came through during a reading to say how proud she was of her. This young woman was adamant about not having a German grandmother and demanded to have her money returned. She called me a couple of days later and could not apologize enough to me for behaving the way she did. She said she had talked to her mother the evening of the day of her reading and her mother told her she did have a German grandmother that had passed away in Germany long before she was born. This was her paternal grandmother whom she never met and her family had never discussed for various reasons.
Expect that you won’t be able to control the content of the session. There is a reason why you are coming to me for a reading. Spirit gives you what you need to know, not necessarily what you want to know. Sometimes knowing too much can interfere with your life path because knowing too much may actually cause you to sabotage the good Spirit has in store for you. It is not meant, nor is it necessary to know everything or to rely on psychics or mediums too frequently.
Expect that no matter what you hear in your session, you will have to take responsibility for your choices and decisions. You may reorder your priorities as a result of what you heard or make new choices that impact the course of your life. But, remember, Spirit will never tell you what to do and neither will I. You have freewill and must make your own decisions.
Expect to walk away from your session feeling whole, healed and full of hope, validation and peace.